He is not 5'9" unless he wore a pair of silletos! I'm 5'5 1/2" and he was just a tad taller than me. His profile states "NO WAY" to smoking and he reeked of cigarettes. He got up twice during our meal and came back smelling even worse from smoke. It was obvious he snuck out to smoke. His skintone has the gray pallor of one who smokes alot.I later bumped into someone who knew him and he claimed he was a chain smoker! He claimed to be in great shape from lots of tennis. I wear a size 4 and he looked smaller than me and bordered on being "frail". His hairline was receding more in person than in his photo. He was pleasant enough and very bright but not candid with his information.