So who knows what else he's lied about When he first contacted me, his age was listed as 39. I emailed back and said that based on his pics, it seemed as though he was lying about his age to come up in searches which I thought was a bit sad. He then said "I would never do something like that, I am hurt that I look so old. I apologized for my error and for rushing to judgement but never heard back. When I looked at his profile again a few days later , he had adjusted his age to 41 which, actually is not all that believable either - he looks mid to late 40's..