I swear, this guy did indeed compare himself to Clark Kent in trying to excuse all the many lies he put in his profile and told me when we were going out. 1) He claimed to be 45 - he was in fact 61! (But he argued that he FELT 45 so it wasn't a lie.) 2) He claimed to have never been married, but he had been... for 7 years. (But he claimed that it hadn't been a religious ceremony, so it didn't count. 3) He claimed that he had the closest, most wonderful family in the world (and sneered at other people's), but he was estranged from 2 of his 3 siblings and was -- at best -- distant with any of his nieces and nephews. 4) He claimed to be a lawyer, but was actually a property owner/manager. all I will tell you is BEWARE. He is NOT what he seems.