We IM'd and spoke on the phone for a week then had a nice first date. His profile states that he is 35 but I learned that he's really older (he told me women 25-35 wouldn't be interested in him otherwise; however, I am in my early 40's and it didn't seem to matter once he met me.) Two weeks later, he emailed to invite me on a road trip out of town with him for his brother's birthday party. I accepted but then I never heard from him again!